II. The Attributes of an Apostle - Prayer
A friend of mine recently lost his mother and as I condoled with him,
he told me that his greatest fear was that his mother, who was not very
close to God, might not have made it to heaven. His words pained my
heart and I couldn't help but wonder how many of us have loved ones -
mothers and fathers, brothers and sisters, spouses and children - who
have left the Faith with their eternal fate uncertain. We can help
save them while they are alive; but once they are dead our choices
are severely limited.
The problem that most of us who care about our loved ones face is how
to bring them to the Faith (or back to it). Most people are so full
of their own sense of wisdom and understanding, they will not listen
to anything we have to say. We can learn a few lessons from St.
Francis de Sales, whom I introduced in this column last week as a man
who brought 60,000 people back to the Catholic Church! How did he
achieve this seemingly impossible feat? Through the attributes of a
true apostle, one of which is prayerful dependance on God.
One of the most moving testimonies of the power of prayer can be
found in the life of Monica of Hippo, whose son Augustine was
severely delinquent. Though raised as a good Catholic, he fell away
from the Faith and lived a debauched, hedonistic life. Highly
promiscuous, he is known to have fathered at least one illegitimate
child. He got caught up in a religious cult and was wayward to the
When his mother complained to a bishop that Augustine refused to
listen to her about God, he suggested that she speak less to
Augustine about God and more to God about Augustine. It was advice
she followed and, as we all know, Augustine ended up becoming one of
the world's more famous saints - as did his prayerful mother.
My own life mirrors Augustine's story. For 25 years I lived a Godless
life, possibly even more depraved than St. Augustine's, refusing to
listen to anybody who preached to me about the existence of God.
Finally, God in answer the thousands of prayers made for me by
mother, wife, and countless others, brought me to my knees and caused
a total change of heart. Today a man who once tore up Bibles,
preaches from them to people around the world.
If God can change hard cases like Augustine and me, He can surely
work miracles with the less hardhearted in your family. And all the
others you care about. The secret is to pray! Prayer allows God's
grace to well up within you, flowing out to all those who wish to
May the Spirit be with you.
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