Nursery Tales

Is it all right to bring my infant to Mass? Our parish has a nursery, but I like to have my child with me.

Dear Gentle Christian: Sr. Manners loves babies, too. However, she feels compelled to raise some cautions in response to your query. Babies have no sense of timing. When they want something, they scream for it -- often at the least opportune time. At the first cry, you must, dear parent, remove the child from the church , especially if it is during the readings or homily. Your fellow Christians have a right to hear the word of God unimpeded. It is important, therefore, that you choose a seat positioned for a quick exit. Secondly, Sr. Manners notes that although babies may come into the world with nothing, they accumulate belongings rapidly. A baby is usually accompanied by a carrier, a diaper bag, toys, blankets, bottles, etc. These can pose tripping hazards to others when left on the floor. So, Sr. Manners recommends that if you do bring your wee one, you leave all but the bare essentials in the coat room. Finally, Sr. Manners strongly suggests that you volunteer your services for the parish nursery and become familiar with it. Then it might be a more attractive alternative.

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